Let your inner you out to have fun and come alive.
I’m not sure where I heard this, but it immediately resonated with me. I am one who has been extremely rigid in my way of living in the past few years. I cared so much about other people’s opinions that I didn’t let myself be myself. I wouldn’t laugh at some things, I tempered how loud I laughed, I let go of all of my sarcasm and wit. I became a person who didn’t want to offend or be considered weird or even stand out.
I boxed myself up and shoved me deep inside. I wasn’t living.
Then I heard this statement and I knew I needed to hear it in that moment. I immediately wrote it on a sticky note and stuck it to my monitor. Then I made a phone background and it is still there. I need a reminder every day to let myself be myself. I haven’t fully broken through the fear of leaning into who I truly am in every single situation. I’m working on it, but I have a long way to go.
I’ve been louder, I’ve laughed more, I’ve been sarcastic more. I’ve been open and honest with coworkers that I’m working on growth and that I appreciate and need their constructive criticism for the work I’m doing, even if I don’t change anything.
If you are anything like me, let yourself out. Have some fun. Fuck what other people say. You are a wonderful person that has hidden all that wonderfulness for far too long. Try a little each day to bring your inner you out to have some fun. And if you need a daily reminder, here is my phone background. There’s a lot of empty space because my main screen apps are around the text. I literally fit it to my app layout. No matter your layout, this will be a wonderful reminder for you too.
What would you do differently if you let your inner-self out to have some fun?